First Corinthians 7:25–40 is the lengthiest passage in the Bible that explicitly speaks of how people decide to get married. It is filled with phrases such as: “He should do as he wants, he is not sinning”; “The man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but who has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind”; “She is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.” Could it be any clearer? God expects you to make the decision. And God